2025
RENEWING OUR COMMITMENT TO GOD IN THE NEW YEAR.
Key Verse: “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” (Isaiah 43:18-19)
This Week: 1st Month, 4th Week - Jan 26, 2025
Theme: – Taming the Tongue
Memory Verse: “Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you should answer everyone. Colosians 4:6
Objective: By the end of the lesson, Readers should –
Content:
Introduction:
Believers must always consider what effect their words and actions have on unbelievers. Outsiders may know nothing more of Christianity than what they see in us or hear from us. If we are not wise we may offend them unnecessarily. If we do not take the opportunities God gives us to speak to them of Christ, their blood may be on our hands – Acts 20:25-27.
When we do speak to them our way of speaking should be gracious, courteous, pleasant. And, of course, our message to them should always put emphasis on God’s grace. Ps 45:2; You are fairer than the sons of men. Grace is poured into your lips; therefore God has blessed you forever. Luke 4:22. And all testified about him, and wondered at the gracious words which came from his mouth. And they said, “Is not this Joseph’s son?”
The word “salt” may suggest two things. Salt makes things tasty. Our way of speaking should make people want to hear more. Salt preserves from corruption. We do not need to adopt the corrupt way of speaking common among men. Compare Eph 4:29. "Let no corrupt talk come out of your mouth, but what is good and useful for edification, that it may minister grace to those who hear it".
Main Lessons:
1. The Power of Words:
A biblical analysis of the words Christians use should start with the understanding that words have power, both to build up and to tear down. Scripture frequently addresses the importance of speech, emphasizing that it reflects our character and faith. Below is a study on this theme:
Proverbs 18:21: "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits." Words can bring life (encouragement, hope, and truth) or death (despair, division, and harm). Christians are called to use their words wisely to glorify God and edify others. James 3:5-6: "The tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire!" This passage warns of the destructive potential of uncontrolled speech. It teaches Christians to tame their tongues and exercise restraint.
2. Speaking Truth and Love:
Ephesians 4:29: "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." Christians are instructed to avoid harmful language and to focus on words that uplift, encourage, and align with God’s purposes. Colossians 4:6: "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." Our words should reflect grace and wisdom, bringing flavor and preservation to relationships.
3. Words as a Reflection of the Heart:
Matthew 12:34-37: "For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks... I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak." Jesus reminds us that our words reveal the condition of our hearts. Righteous speech flows from a heart transformed by God. Proverbs 4:23-24: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips." This connection between the heart and speech highlights the importance of spiritual integrity.
4. Avoiding Harmful Speech:
James 1:19: "Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." Christians are encouraged to practice patience and thoughtful communication, avoiding impulsive or harsh speech. Exodus 20:7: "You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain." This commandment reminds Christians to honor God with their speech and avoid using His name carelessly or disrespectfully.
5. Encouraging Others with Our Words:
Hebrews 10:24-25: "Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works... encouraging one another." Christians are called to use their words to inspire love and action in the community of faith. 1 Thessalonians 5:11: "Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing." Encouragement is a hallmark of Christian speech, aimed at strengthening others in faith.
Application:
1. Examine Your Speech: Regularly reflect on the words you use. Are they pleasing to God and edifying to others?
2. Pray for Guidance: Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your speech and give you wisdom in challenging conversations.
3. Practice Listening: Being slow to speak often leads to more thoughtful and meaningful communication.
4. Speak Scripture: Incorporate biblical truths into your conversations to bring encouragement and spiritual growth to others.
By aligning our words with God’s Word, Christians can reflect Christ’s love and truth in their daily lives.
Questions: Note your questions here
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